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As individuals our brains receive stronger electrochemical message from different pats of our bodies. This is usually determined by the number of nerve endings in a particular area, but it can also be influenced by how often we are touched in a particular area and mental association with touch. For example - If we are touch rarely on the inner thigh, but it is always pleasurable when we are touched there, our mind remembers this and up an association. Thus creating an erogenous zone. Of course some erogenous zones are innate and not learnt association. It is important for individuals to explore their own body and to learn how they like to be touched and how to pleasure themselves through touch. This information no only leads to a healthy self pleasuring life of masturbation but it also increases the level of pleasure you will get when having sex with a partner because you can show them how you like to be pleasured. You really need to find out what makes you tingle with pleasure. It is equally as important for couples to one another's bodies. Touching all body parts and not just homing in on the usual hot spots, to discover or to create some touch associated erogenous zones. As an individual your own body exploration is limited because it is yourself doing all the touching, sometimes lovers can find an undiscovered pleasures that you could not have found yourself. For more in-depth discoveries try touching with ice cubes and a hot tongue. Your tongue can easily be warmed up with a quick gulp of hot water. Experimenting in the bath is also great because hot and cold water is readily available to drizzle over potential sensitive spots. Warming massage oils are also available which give skin a tingling warmness, especially if it is blown on, or even licked. It really is great fun and a unique sensual feeling. Experiment with feathers The soft tickliness of feathers can be very arousing on some body parts. Try long sweeping strokes as well as shorter ones. Being spanked can be a lot of fun. After the nerve endings have received a quick shock, blood rushes to the afflicted area which gives the skins surface a rosy pink glow and a tingly warm sensation. The rush of blood also hightens the responsiveness of the nerve ending making the area more sensitive to touch. There is a abundance of spanking tools on the market. From paddles and canes to riding crops and floggers and they are widely available in most good sex shops. A cat-o-nine tails is a great toy to investigate spanking with. Get one made from soft leather because its spank isn't too harsh for beginners, additionally the tails of the whip are great for stroking and stimulating flushed skin. If you do find the cat-o-nine tails erotic you may like to move on to experimenting with paddles, cains or whips however you do need to bare in mind that whips do need a lot of room to be used, and can have a tendency to bring down the light fittings. |