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Pleasuring Pussy
A lot of men feel intimidated by the woman intimate feminine area and its hardly surprising when there are all those special G-spots and clitoris's to find. You probably feel you need an A to Z just to get around it; and that's my aim. I will show you a map of pleasurable pussy spots.

Knowing your way around a pussy will boost your confidence and make you a better lover regardless of the stimuli you choose to adopt. Pleasuring the right spot is the all important thing. After all, you wont make a girl with ticklish feet laugh by tickling her knees!

Knowing the sensitive intimate parts to stimulate and a few tips technique will stop that nagging thought "Does she fake it?"

Potentially a woman's pussy has a number of erogenous zones. A woman's intimate area has a large quantity of nerve ending and stimuli to this area increase blood to the area making the pussy a little darker in colour and a slightly swollen. The increase of blood hightens sensitivity, so that continued stimulation causes a climax. However, different women have more pleasurable spots than others so it is important that you learn where each erogenous zone is. The only way to find out what pleasures an individual woman most is to try all the spots with a few techniques and see the results.

The pleasurable Hot Spots

The A-Spot
The A-Spot, (AFE-zone or Anterior Fornix Erogenous Zone) is a patch of sensitiveb tissue between the cervix and the bladder. Direct stimulation of this spot can produce violent orgasmic contractions. Unlike the clitoris, it is not supposed to suffer from post-orgasmic over-sensitivity.

How to stimulate the A-Spot....
A single slightly bent finger beckoning 'come here' action is great on this spot. Girls who have a sensitive A-spot will usually favour deep penetrative sexual positions, such as doggy style. The best tool for the job would have to be a long thin Lady Finger type vibe or a Long Dildo. As she lays on her back, angle the vibrator or dildo so that it rubs her A-spot. this means your end of the toy will angled down towards the bed. Listen out for moans of delight because these are a good sign that your hitting the right spot.


The Clitoris
This is the best known of the female genital hot spots, located at the top of the vulva. The visible part is the small, nipple-sized and is partially covered by a protective hood. Essentially it is a bundle of 8000 nerve fibres, making it the most sensitive spot on the entire female body.

How to stimulate the clitoris....
There are lots of effective ways of stimulating the clitoris, so it might take you some time trying out all these techniques. Firstly with fingers, use a bit of Lube and move your fingers over the clitoris in a circular motion, starting off quite slowly and gradually speeding up. The lubrication is very important because it makes your fingers glide over the clit and it feels sexier and is so much more stimulating.

In a similar fashion the tongue can be used to stimulate the clitoris. You may need to combine tongue action with another stimulation because it can cause terrible aching to the tongue.

Clit Stims are widely available. Some Clit Stims Vibrate, and this is a very effective method of clitoral stimulation because it is constant. Other clit stims offer Vibrations and Suction. The idea being that creating suction in the labia and clitoris regions draws more blood into the area, heightening sensitivity.

Clit Stims are great toys to use if you or your lady predominantly climax through clitoral stimulation (which most women do) Top Tip - If you do need lots of clitoral stimulation to climax a Hands Free Clit Stim or a Vibrating Cock Ring are great for using during intercourse. Additionally Vibrator-phobic men feel less threatened by a non phallic clit stim whether it Vibrates or Not.

The ultimate in clitoral stimulation has to be the New Emotional Bliss range. The unique shapes of the Emotional Bliss vibrators were developed by sexsperts to give maximum pleasure. It's the insides have been loaded with a super powered vibrator that delivers up to 110Hz of vibrating pleasure, that's more than any other clit stim on the market.


The G-Spot
The G-Spot, or Grafenberg Spot. This is a small, highly sensitive area located 5-8 cm (2-3 inches) inside the vagina, on the front or upper wall. Named after its discoverer, a German gynaecologist called Ernst Grafenberg, it is sometimes romantically referred to as the Goddess Spot.

How to stimulate the G-Spot....
Because the G-spot isn't far inside the woman, all you need to do with your fingers is to insert your index finger a little was and then fluidly beckon as if you were asking someone to come to you. Your movements don't have to be fast or hard. As you rub the G-spot you will be able to feel that the texture of the G-spot feels rippled, rather like the surface of a walnut shell.

Vibrators, especially G-spot Vibes with their hook shaped tips are a great way to massage the G-spot. However, make sure you are massaging the G-spot or your efforts will be in vain.

Knobbly Dildos and Vibrators are wonderful for women who enjoy having their G-spot massaged. They can be inserted any witch way and always manage to brush up against the G-spot. They are also a pretty fool proof toy for the guy who still not worked out where the elusive G-spot is.


The T-Zone
The T Zone has a gathering of nerves that carry information from your whole genital area on their way back to the spinal cord. These nerves send arousal information back to the part of your nervous system which heightens sexual arousal.

How to stimulate the T-Zone....
In women, the T Zone can be indirectly massaged through the anterior wall (toward the belly button) of the vagina with a finger as demonstrated in the picture.

again a G-spot Vibe can be used here. Use one made of Jelly to avoid discomfort and press a little harder that you would to massage the G-spot.

The Womolia can be used to stimulate the T-zone. Simply insert the end of the vibe into the vagina with the blue textured area in contact with the T-zone and turn on the power.


The U-Spot
Only recently investigated by American clinical research workers this is a small patch of sensitive erectile tissue located just above, and on either side of the urethral opening.

How to stimulate the U-Spot....
Many women love to have this spot caressed, because as you rub it you can stimulate both the clitoris and the G spot. Make small circles around the U spot with your finger, varying between clockwise and anti-clockwise motions. Don't probe the opening with your finger, though There's a chance this could lead to a urinary tract infection.

To lick the U-spot, gently open the labia and lick with long strokes as if you were licking an ice cream using the whole of your tongue. To develop your technique use cream, ice-cream syrup or Flavoured Lubricants, drizzle liberally over the clitoris and U-Spot and then lick off. Top Tip - Makes moaning sounds of satisfaction as your licking really adds to the horniness of the whole experience.


The most important thing to remember when you are pleasuring pussy is that even with the best tequnique in the world, it won't make her come if you're not pleasuring the right spot! So remember your road map!!








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